1. You are born and raised there.
2. You are preferably Baptist by faith.
3. You do not believe in drinking alcohol or being in the same
vicinity
as alcohol.
4. You are strictly a Kentucky Wildcat fan.
5. You eat, drink and breathe country music...
If you are an "outsider" you will not fit in. My family moved to
Laurel Co., Kentucky from Southern Illinois in 1986, due to a job
transfer.
I had always heard such wonderful things about Kentucky. My Father
lived in this Commonwealth a good part of his growing up. When we
learned
we were to live in Kentucky we thought of warm, gracious "Southern
Hospitality."
Boy were we fooled. We were
Catholic by faith and that is a very big strike
against an individual moving into this particular community. First of
all,
if you are an "outsider", well that is bad, but an "outsider" who is
Catholic
by faith AND a "Yankee"?.....well you might as well give up trying to
fit
in. I thought the Civil War was over, yet people from the North are
still
referred to as "Yankees". If I would call these people "Rebels", I am
sure
that it would start another war.
THE TERM "REBEL", IN THE DICTIONARY, STATES:
1. a person who engages in armed resistance against the
established
government of his country;
2. a person who resists any authority or control:
3. rebellious, which means, difficult to treat or handle.
ON THE OTHER HAND, THE TERM "YANKEE" MEANS:
1. a native or inhabitant of New England;
2. a native or inhabitant of a Northern State;
3. a native or inhabitant of the U.S.
Gee, looks like Southerners are also, "Yankees" according to the
dictionary. I have NEVER in my entire 44 years of life called a
Southern
person a "Rebel", yet these people which I lived among felt they must
label
a person, who just happens to be born in the North, a "Yankee".
After living there we have decided that it must be like living in
a foreign country. I have NEVER been a prejudice person. I was raised
to
accept everyone no matter their color, religion or beliefs. I am sorry
to say that since our move to that lovely little haven, Laurel County,
I now am prejudice.......not against Southerners, Kentuckians, Laurel
Countians,
nor Wildcat Fans....I am prejudice against the people (and they know
who
they are) that won't accept "outsiders" into this community. I have met
quite a few wonderful people there that I will always think of fondly.
Laurel County and most of Southeastern Kentucky does not want to better
itself. It wants to stay in the past......Civil War, Prohibition, Dark
Ages. Yes, if you want to relive the past just visit Laurel County
Kentucky.
Oh, the people and the community look up to date, but that is just a
front.
Inside and behind the scenes most of the people are very behind the
times...narrow-minded.
The high officials who are in government and leadership are worse.
Laurel
County is the most corrupt place imaginable. Just because it is a "dry"
county doesn't mean that it is "dry". There are probably more drugs and
alcohol available there than any "wet" county you could think of in
Southeastern
Kentucky.
I want to add that I am not blasting Baptists, Kentucky Wildcat
fans and country music. Most of my family are Baptists as well as
Wildcat
fans not to mention lovers of country music. I myself prefer rock and
roll,
but that does not make me a bad person. I would like to add one more
thing. Catholics do NOT worship Mary! That is totally absurd. You
people who
actually believe this show your ignorance and complete lack of
knowledge.
Before you make accusations, study up. Laurel Countians need to
learn that
there are many many different kinds of people out there.
God made everyone different. If everyone were the same, it would
be a very dull world......(hey, just like Laurel County).
I have a suggestion for the Laurel Countians.....You should build
a large dome over the entire county to keep people in and better still
keep people out. Think of it, you could stay the same and things would
never change...no progression!
Luckily, we now reside once again in our hometown where there is
true
"Southern Hospitality". Our time in Southeastern Kentucky has been
served.
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I could have not said what you did better about Laurel
County, and
I still live here. I was born in Wofford, and raised in
Cincinnati,
my husband is from Corning, New York.
What you said about Laurel County goes Triple for Williamsburg, Whitley County. We lived there for 25 years and was never made to feel welcome, it was a struggle every step of the way with those Biggoted Snots. We finaly bought a home in the country, just inside Laurel
Country,
it is a little better, but Hey, I am no longer a People Person, I keep
to myself, and our Jehovah neighbors leave us be. We are very
content.
I do worry about our Bi-racial grand-sons future around here though,
you
were right, they are living in the Dark Ages.
Mrs. Louise Walters Sherlock lsher@bellsouth.net
PS: I'm thinking about writing a book about our years in this area, boy wouldn't that raise some eye brows. |